An unbreakable family doesn't crumble when report cards or struggles show up — it leans in and holds steady. This holiday season isn't about making grades the star of the show. It's about remembering what really builds a strong family: connection, respect, and trust.
Yes, your child may bave callenges to overcome. But creating lasting memories and a solid relationship during the holidays is just as important for their future as a grade on a piece of paper. The truth? You can handle the struggles in January. Right now, focus on what really matters — building the kind of family bond that helps everyone grow stronger together.
This is the time to step back and reflect on what really matters.
The Bigger Picture: How Many Magical Holidays Do You Really Have?
Let’s pause for a second. There are only about 18 holidays with your children under your roof before they grow up. And truthfully, only about 10 to 12 of those are truly magical. The first few they won’t remember, and by the time they’re teenagers, the wonder of the season often fades.
When you think of it that way, it’s clear how precious these moments are. Yes, academics matter, and yes, we want our kids to live up to their full potential—but the holidays are an opportunity to teach something even more important: love, grace, and the value of family.
When Report Cards Cloud the Holidays
It’s natural to feel disappointed when grades aren’t where they should be. Maybe you’re frustrated that your child isn’t trying hard enough, or perhaps you’re overwhelmed by how to help them improve. These feelings are valid, but if they dominate the season, they can overshadow what should be a time of joy and connection.
Here’s how to navigate the holidays while keeping both priorities—family and academics—in balance.
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Question:
Am I wrong for this? So my son gets really frustrated when something goes wrong with his tablet, and it’s my pet peeve, so I immediately yell at him to stop crying/whining for the tablet. If I tell him it’s going to be time’s up using the tablet, he will whine; if he can’t get a game he wants to play, he whines. Sometimes I will just take the tablet away, and he’s done using it. I just don’t know if this is correct because I’m worried I’m making him suppress his frustrations and emotions. I do tell him to use his words when he wants help with the tablet, but he still whines—as most kids do. I know it’s normal, but I don’t know if I’m handling it correctly. He’s three years old for reference.
Answer:
He is still so very young. Frustrations, whether on a screen or off-screen, are going to happen. When I had my classroom of 3-year-olds, there were the perfectly content ones and then others who would lose it when they couldn't get something just right. You could see that their mind and intellect were far beyond their ability, and their body just wouldn’t comply with what they wanted done.
Yelling at him won't help him get through it. Instead, let him know that his body is working to catch up with his mind and that he is amazing. Tell him it’s okay to not have something work right away.
Make sure there’s a balance of screen time and playtime without screens. Many parents rely on screens for a break, and that’s okay! But aim for an 80/20 balance. Right now is an important time for your child to discover the world—figuring out hand-eye coordination, running, jumping, getting dirty, exploring nature, bugs, and critters. Too much screen time can take away from real-life learning, which helps build coping skills.
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As we move into the holiday season, let’s remember what matters most: the love and connection we share as a family. The holidays are fleeting, but the memories we create together now will last a lifetime.
Wishing you a season filled with joy and connection!
For Your Family’s Success,
Sunny
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